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Observe, Describe, Be in the Moment

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What Skill

DBT encourages us to live our lives fully. To do so, it’s most effective to: observe, describe, and participate in the activity of the moment throughout our day.

Observe

  • Pay attention to events, emotions, and thoughts.
  • Try not to terminate them when they are painful.
  • Try not to prolong them when they are pleasant.
  • Allow yourself to experience with awareness.

Describe

  • Describe events, label emotions, identify thoughts.
  • Try not to take emotions and thoughts as accurate and exact reflections of events.
  • List “just the facts” – No need to label or judge.

Participate

  • Enter completely into the activity of the moment.
  • Try not to be self-conscious.
  • Be spontaneous and give attention to the activity.