Sources/Resourcs Pheonix Australia, Open Arms, Help Guide, National Centre for PTSD
Many people experience fear and anxiety during and after a traumatic event. Anxiety symptoms usually overlap with generalised anxiety disorder.
Understand Generalised Anxiety Disorder

Symptoms of anxiety and stress overlap, certain thoughts and behaviours can reinforce anxiety and stress.
If you become more aware of changes in your thoughts and behaviour when faced with challenging situations, you can then test whether it is reasonable in the circumstances. You can use the smart approach model and other tools to change your behaviours (cognitive other) to help you cope better with and improve your situation. Support from a mental health professional can be beneficial. Sometimes medication can be help with anxiety, but some can have be addictive e.g. Benzodiazepine.

A major and commonly overlooked part of living with EDS is medical trauma, stemming from contact with medical professionals who may not always understand, believe, or even listen. It’s something I sadly see a lot of in sessions and can even become a barrier in our work together (which we always overcome in time!). But what is medical trauma? How does it happen? And most importantly, how do we overcome it?
In this blog, we’ll explore the reality of medical trauma in the EDS community, looking at the real-life experiences of those impacted and what needs to change.
Learn more at The Fibroguy Article by Trauma. Counsellor Serena Foster3
Pain can co-occur with PTSD in some people and can contribute to a worsening of some symptoms including anxiety. Pain can impact your thinking.
7Persistent inability to experience positive emotions (e.g., inability to experience happiness,
satisfaction, or loving feelings) can happen as a result of trauma, along with others symptoms including difficult emotions which may include high irritability.
Depression
Anger
Everyone gets angry, and anger can sometimes be useful to motivate people and help them to deal with situations in which they need to be assertive. However, if anger is expressed in ways that are harmful to the person or others, or persists over a long period of time, then it can become a problem.
Anger tends to be experienced in the following ways:
It can be acute or ‘explosive’ in nature when a person flies into a rage. With this type of anger there tends to be strong physical
reactions such as muscle tension, heart palpitations and sweating.
Longer-term anger or resentment. This type of anger tends to be the result of thinking negative thoughts over and over again –
for example, replaying frustrating events over and over again or constantly having revenge fantasies.
While anger is often a response to perceived injustice or frustration, it can be driven by a range of feelings like sadness, hurt or
feeling unsafe or threatened. For example, a parent may become angry with their child for crossing the road without looking,
when, in fact, the driving emotion is fear for their safety.
When is anger a problem?
Anger can have its benefits when it is not accompanied by violence or intimidation. It can give people the courage to confront
someone they do not usually have the courage to confront. Anger can also motivate people to be assertive, spurring them into
action to help solve a problem or have their needs met. However, if anger gets out of hand and leads to actions such as hitting or
threatening someone, or ending up with an assault charge, it becomes self-defeating. Intense or long-lasting anger is draining, and
can affect relationships at home and at work. In the end, people’s needs are more likely to be met and their relationships kept
healthy if they can manage their anger and communicate their needs assertively rather than aggressively.
Anger may be a problem if:
- your anger is causing problems with your personal or work relationships, your health or the law
- you feel angry a lot of the time
- your anger involves verbal, emotional or physical abuse of those around you
- you think the only way to get what you want is to be angry
- your anger is out of proportion to the trigger that set it off
- it takes a long time for your anger to subside after the situation triggering your anger has passed
- you feel anxious, remorseful or depressed about your anger
- you use alcohol or substances to manage your anger
Depression
At times, people may experience symptoms such as sadness, loss of interest or low motivation. Sometimes these symptoms
become intense and are present most days for a long period of time.
When symptoms such as these start interfering with everyday life and last more than two weeks, we refer to them as ‘clinical
depression’ or ‘major depression’.
Major depression is very different from simply feeling ‘blue’ from time to time and includes the following changes:
Changes in mood
Moods common to depression include sadness, anxiety, guilt, worthlessness, hopelessness and anger.
If depression is mild, individuals may not feel bad all day but still describe a dismal outlook and a sense of gloom. Their mood
may lift with a positive experience such as seeing a good friend, but fall again with even a minor disappointment.
In severe depression, a low mood will persist throughout the day, failing to lift even when pleasant things happen.
Physical changes
Trouble falling, or staying, asleep and waking up too early is common. Some people, on the other hand, find themselves
sleeping more.
Weight can change, with appetite decreasing or increasing significantly.
Sexual interest may decline.
Energy levels fall, as does motivation to carry out everyday activities, including things that were enjoyable in the past.
Changes in thinking
Individuals with depression sometimes find that they have difficulty thinking clearly, or concentrating on tasks or activities.
Depressed people tend to see themselves as being useless, inadequate and failures. They dwell on how bad they feel and on howhopeless everything is. Sometimes, these thoughts are so negative that they can contemplate taking their own life.
Changes in relationships
People who experience depression may become unhappy and dissatisfied with their family relationships, close friends, etc. They
may feel shy and anxious around others and have trouble socialising. They may feel lonely and unloved, but at the same time, feel
unable to reach out to others.
What causes depression?
Depression is not usually caused by one thing. We know that an individual may be vulnerable to depression if there is a history of
depression in the family, and we also know that particular thinking patterns (e.g., overstressing the negative) are also associated
with depression. It is important to note that having a vulnerability to depression does not mean that someone will experience
depression. There are many situations that can trigger depression including, loss of a loved one, loss of working ability, relationship
difficulties, or a traumatic event.
Getting Help
There are effective treatments available to help people overcome their depression. One of the most effective treatments is
cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT). This approach recognises that the way we think and act affects the way we feel. During this therapy you will learn:
A structured approach to problem solving to help you manage the day to day stressors.
How to challenge your negative thinking, which will have a positive impact on the way you feel.
Strategies to help you get back to your routine and enjoying your usual activities.
The therapy may involve 8-12 weekly sessions with a mental health professional, but may require longer depending on your needs.
Your doctor may also have suggested medication which can be of assistance in overcoming depression, especially in the case of
severe depression.
Sleep Tools
https://www.openarms.gov.au/get-support/self-help-tools/show-all-tools/behaviours/healthy-sleeping
- https://www.wpspublish.com/blog/is-it-autism-trauma-or-both-understanding-the-overlap ↩︎
- https://library.neura.edu.au/ptsd-library/co-occurring-conditions-ptsd-library/physical-disorders-co-occurring-conditions-ptsd-library/traumatic-brain-injury-3/index.html ↩︎
- ↩︎
- https://library.neura.edu.au/ptsd-library/co-occurring-conditions-ptsd-library/physical-disorders-co-occurring-conditions-ptsd-library/chronic-pain-and-fibromyalgia/index.html?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=21926626713&utm_content=&utm_term=&gad_source=1 ↩︎
- https://library.neura.edu.au/ptsd-library/physical-features-ptsd-library/functional-changes-ptsd-library/hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal-axis-3/index.html ↩︎
- https://library.neura.edu.au/ptsd-library/signs-and-symptoms-ptsd-library/general-signs-and-symptoms-signs-and-symptoms-ptsd-library/hyperarousal/index.html ↩︎
- https://www.phoenixaustralia.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/07/Chapter-2-Trauma-and-trauma-reactions.pdf ↩︎
- https://library.neura.edu.au/ptsd-library/co-occurring-conditions-ptsd-library/physical-disorders-co-occurring-conditions-ptsd-library/sleep-apnea-3/index.html ↩︎