The Misunderstood, The Fluctuating, The Sensitive
Darmish was not designed for the mainstream. It was created for the margins—for the people who don’t quite “fit” the pace, expectations, or assumptions of the modern world.
It’s for those who:
- Cancel plans—not because they don’t care, but because they’re in a flare
- Need dim lights, quiet corners, and scent-free space just to think clearly
- Can’t keep up with rigid routines or perform wellness “perfectly”
- Feel things deeply—pain, joy, noise, tension, textures, injustice
- Try to explain their needs and are met with disbelief, dismissal, or judgment
It’s for people who have asked themselves:
“Why does everything feel just a little too much?”
“Why can’t I bounce back like everyone else?”
“Why do I feel so guilty for needing what I need?”
🧬 Enter the ALPIMS Framework
Darmish is especially helpful for those living with ALPIMS-spectrum conditions—a group of overlapping challenges that tend to travel together in families and across lifespans.
A – Anxiety & Autonomic Dysregulation
Panic, overwhelm, hypervigilance, POTS, shutdowns, racing thoughts, fear of not coping.
L – Laxity & Load Intolerance
Hypermobility, joint instability, poor recovery from exertion, tissue fragility, energy crashes.
P – Pain & Sensory Amplification
Headaches, fibromyalgia, chronic fatigue, burning, aching, misophonia, visual snow.
I – Immune Dysregulation
MCAS, food intolerances, eczema, histamine issues, chemical sensitivity, gut inflammation.
M – Mood & Motivation Challenges
Low mood, executive dysfunction, shutdowns, trauma responses, grief, fatigue-based “depression.”
S – Sensory and Social Sensitivity
Noise, light, smell, social expectations, masking, disconnection, demand avoidance.
Darmish is for people whose needs live in these realms—often overlapping, often invisible, often misunderstood.
🌫️ The Struggles Others Don’t See
This toolkit is for those who don’t always “look sick” but:
- Manage an exhausting internal world
- Experience energy as a limited currency
- Crash from too much sound, too much light, too much anything
- Can’t digest what their bodies used to handle—food, stress, plans
- Seem “fine” to others until they aren’t—and then feel blamed
Darmish recognizes that fluctuation is real. That what works one day may fail the next. That people can be high-functioning in one moment and in shutdown the next—and both are valid.
🫂 Darmish Is Also for Their Loved Ones
This toolkit isn’t just for individuals. It’s for families, partners, carers, and professionals who want to offer support without pressure or control.
It teaches a new language of care—one built on consent, sensory awareness, and compassion over correction.
When someone in a household lives in the ALPIMS spectrum, it changes the whole rhythm. Darmish offers a way to adapt that rhythm together, instead of letting it fracture relationships or generate shame.
💬 If You’ve Ever Said…
- “I just need the world to soften a little.”
- “I feel like I live in a body that no one understands.”
- “Why is it so hard to find support that doesn’t feel like pressure?”
- “I wish I could just be met where I’m at.”
…then Darmish was made for you.