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🔴Avoid Overwhelming Activities

🧘 Red Zone Reminder:

You are not failing. Your body is protecting you.
The only job right now is to survive gently.

🔴 RED ZONE – HIGH RISK, FLARE-TRIGGERING

These activities may overwhelm one or more ALPIMS systems and should be avoided or heavily modified.

CognitivePhysicalEmotional/SensoryMixed
Intense problem-solvingDeep cleaning, vacuuming, rearrangingConflict, arguments, emotional confrontationHosting or managing events
Back-to-back appointmentsMulti-stop errands, travel daysNoisy social environmentsMoving house or coordinating family logistics
Long decision-making sessionsExercise without pacing or support toolsSensory overload (lights, noise, smells)Managing family emergencies without backup
Starting multiple new protocolsCarrying heavy loads, overstretchingEmotional caregiving for others while unwellLaunching new routines without buffer zones
Planning under time pressureLack of rest between physical tasksIgnoring early signs of dysregulationMultitasking across domains

💡 Zone-Based Pacing Tips for ALPIMS

  • Green zone: Try to include several of these daily, especially as anchors in the morning and evening.
  • Yellow zone: Space them out. Follow every yellow task with a green one.
  • Red zone: Avoid or adjust. Only do with strong support, pacing, and recovery built in.

🔴 RED ZONE – SHUTDOWN, FLARE, CRISIS MODE

Do only what’s essential. Prioritize comfort, safety, and stillness. Let go of expectations.


🧠 Cognitive – Minimal Mental Effort

  • Letting thoughts come and go without engaging
  • Repeating a mantra (e.g., “This will pass,” “Safe now”)
  • Staring at a fixed point (ceiling fan, wall, light beam)
  • Using noise-canceling headphones or earplugs
  • No screens unless calming (black screen or soft visuals only)
  • Avoiding problem-solving or decision-making altogether
  • Saying “I don’t know right now” and coming back later
  • Gentle reminders: “I am not my thoughts. I can pause.”

🏃 Physical – Emergency Rest and Protection

  • Lying down with full support (pillows under knees, neck)
  • Staying warm or cool depending on symptoms
  • Wearing loose, non-irritating clothing
  • Breathing gently if possible, or simply observing the breath
  • Curling up under a weighted blanket or safe covering
  • Remaining still and conserving every ounce of energy
  • Using incontinence pads or bedside support if needed
  • Allowing the body to collapse safely into deep rest

❤️ Emotional/Sensory – De-escalation & Containment

  • Blocking light (eye mask, dark room)
  • Blocking sound (noise-canceling devices, silence)
  • Holding a comfort item or safety object (teddy, smooth stone)
  • Gentle rocking or tapping (if calming, not stimulating)
  • Letting tears fall if they come, without trying to stop them
  • Saying “not now” to all emotional processing
  • Limiting input—even positive messages—until stable
  • Having a trusted person nearby without needing to speak

🔄 Mixed – Emergency Survival Actions Only

  • Sipping water if safe
  • Taking emergency medication (e.g., antihistamines, pain relief, electrolytes)
  • Using inhaler, EpiPen, or MCAS-safe interventions if needed
  • Texting a short message for help (“flare. please check in later”)
  • Canceling or deferring appointments without explanation
  • Letting go of non-urgent tasks entirely
  • Setting a timer for 5 minutes to check for change later

🛑 Avoid in Red Zone:

  • Problem-solving, decision-making, or planning
  • Social interaction (unless it’s absolutely stabilizing)
  • Movement beyond essential (e.g., to bathroom)
  • Screens with sound, scrolling, or bright visuals
  • Therapy, deep reflection, or intense processing
  • Masking symptoms or pretending you’re okay

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